October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month and October 15th is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day. For decades, this has been a day where families across the globe are asked to light a candle in remembrance of their baby whose life was too short. If everyone was to light a candle at 7pm in… Continue reading October 15th is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day.
Stillmothers.com is devoted to supporting families who have lost children through stillbirth. It contains deeply moving personal stories of loss, and I have found myself becoming lost in the words by these brave parents who are willing to share their experience of grief and loss in order to help others. Today I read Melissa's beautiful… Continue reading Stillbirth
I recently found Natalie's story who has chosen to share photographs of her baby, Eleanor, who was stillborn. I cannot even begin to fathom the level of generosity Natalie has shown by sharing her grief with the world in the hope of helping other people understand what it means to have a baby who dies.… Continue reading The uncensored experience of stillbirth
I am incredibly excited to announce the launch of our new website providing information and support to women and couples who have had abnormalities detected in pregnancy. This website helps guide you through the decision making process of whether or not to continue the pregnancy. For those who do choose to terminate, further support and… Continue reading Support is available after diagnosis of abnormality in pregnancy
So excited to be on ABC Radio "Afternoons" with Kelly Higgins Devine today. Kelly is talking about caring for carers this week, and today I was interviewed about how we can care for people who have recently experienced a pregnancy loss. My interview starts at 4:00 minutes into today's program - here is the link… Continue reading I’m on the radio with Kelly Higgins Devine!
If you have had a miscarriage and are thinking about trying to fall pregnant again, it can be a really scary time. Most people become quite preoccupied with worries like "what if it happens again?". This article by the Mayo Clinic http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/getting-pregnant/in-depth/pregnancy-after-miscarriage/art-20044134 explains the causes of most miscarriages, and reassures us that the majority of women… Continue reading Pregnancy after miscarriage
The loss of a child during pregnancy or in the postpartum is an unspeakably difficult event that can trigger a range of responses. For some, there is an urge to conceive again as soon as possible. But how do you know when you are ready to start trying again? https://www.babble.com/pregnancy/conceive-after-stillbirth/ While my husband and I were… Continue reading Trying to conceive again after losing a baby
When we grieve, we can feel the we lose all track of time and reality. The smallest and simplest of tasks can feel impossibly difficult. Finding and engaging in simple rituals can really help. https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/03/in-grief-try-personal-rituals/284397/ Researchers Michael I. Norton and Francesca Gino at Harvard Business School wanted to know how people cope with extreme loss. In… Continue reading The power of rituals
The announcement of a pregnancy by another woman/couple tends to bring terrible pain to someone who is struggling with their fertility, or has recently experienced an obstetric loss. It isn't that they mean ill to the happily pregnant woman, it is more that that her joy makes their sadness feel even greater. It's a really… Continue reading “To the girl who hated my pregnancy announcement”