If there are 2 questions that torment new parents more than any other, they must be: 1) is my baby getting enough to eat? 2) is my baby getting enough sleep? Particularly when we are trying to function on a sleep defunct ourselves during that newborn stage, it can be really hard to work out… Continue reading How much sleep does your baby need?
Anyone who has had the experience of having a brand new baby in the house will remember the agony of those first 6 or so weeks where you are so totally sleep deprived you spend most of the time feeling like you are having an out of body experience. For most new parents you just… Continue reading Parenthood and sleep deprivation
Have you been feeling like your self esteem is not quite as robust as you would like? Recent research has been suggesting that mindfulness can play a part in building a more positive self esteem by reducing the degree to which we compare ourselves (critically) to those around us. Read more about this research here. https://www.mindful.org/feeling-self-critical-try-mindfulness/?utm_content=buffer02ef7&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer
I know I share a lot of articles and information on this blog - because that's the primary reason I started it. But this morning I thought it might be nice to make it a little more personal and show that (at least some of the time) I do try to practice what I preach. And… Continue reading Gratitude
Its is beginning to feel like every time we turn on the TV, radio or social media, there is another terrible event being reported, and with the advent of 24 hour, 7day a week news services, it is a little inescapable. All of this bad news can feel terrible for adults, but for kids the… Continue reading Helping kids cope with traumatic news
Yep, you guessed it, married women with children are much more likely to be experiencing higher levels of stress than their single childless friends, but there are some simple things you can do about it. This short article by the American Psychological Society gives the following tips: http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/supermom.aspx Strategies to help mothers manage stress: Understand how… Continue reading Who is most stressed? Married or single women?
I just watched the most beautiful piece of television - an interview between Anh Do and Kurt Fearnley, where these 2 engaging, positive men talked about Kurt's incredible life and his sporting achievements. They also discussed some of the stigma he has experienced as a man living with a mobility disability. http://iview.abc.net.au/programs/anhs-brush-with-fame This stunning interview got… Continue reading More on mental illness and stigma
This article gives some interesting perspectives into the relationships we keep. How many of the people we know are really are friends, and what defines a true friend anyway? https://www.nytimes.com/2016/08/07/opinion/sunday/do-your-friends-actually-like-you.html
Some people think the key to feeling better is just 'Thinking happy thoughts' but we know it really isn'tthat simple. Positive Psychology however has a whole range of helpful strategies which can assist in preventing mental illness as well as helping us to recover if we do become unwell. http://www.sbs.com.au/topics/life/health/article/2017/05/24/what-exactly-positive-psychology-and-how-can-you-use-it